Self Love, Boundaries & Standards

Loving others starts with learning to love yourself the right way.

Self-love through Christ isn’t vanity—it’s wisdom. It’s knowing when to rest, when to say no, and when to guard your heart from the things that drain your spirit.

For too long, we’ve been taught that being kind means tolerating anything. But Proverbs 4:23 reminds us: “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.”Boundaries are biblical—they protect the peace that God placed within you.

At Get Them Home, this means helping individuals rebuild dignity and self-worth through God’s love and structure. At Diary of a Healing Virtuous Woman, it means reminding every woman that she is worthy of peace, protection, and purpose.